The road trip from Medicine Hat, AB to Richmond, BC is about 1400km. Not too long. We had travelled it as a family a lot before my surgery in 2012. Before kids, we would do a trip this distance no problem. Before I met Chris I would do a trip similar in one day. Now it is a multi-day adventure! I brought along a tent that i thought all of us could fit into….two adults, two boys & two dogs. Nope. Driving to BC the boys & one dog slept in back of minivan and the rest of us in the tent. I Corrected situation for our trip back by purchasing a new tent that is so big that it could house all of us, our luggage & probably a small country as well!
So not only I had a misperception glitch with the size of the tent, I somehow let it slip that there were four people in the family and insteadI brought three pillows and three light sleeping bags. We made due as the boys had their polar fleece blankets (thanks Sara for those christmas gifts!) We didn’t freeze but came close the morning in the mountains where we could see our breath.
The brisk morning in the mountains, I announce to everyone that I am going to drive. It is early morning and I had lots of energy. I know the vehicle or at least I thought I did. We get going and i try to put the cruise control on. i keep pushing a button and the speed doesn’t stick. I slow down…I speed up & try again only to slow down…so I sped up. Not only are we slowing down & speeding up but it is on a winding road with traffic. i am trying to find the right button, not get us killed, not piss off the drivers behind us and listen to Chris at the same time trying to trouble shoot why I can’t get cruise control to work. This wonderful smooth driving experience lasted for about 30 minutes until I have to pull over because someone in the back voiced that they are going to throw up. I safely pull over; we all minus the dogs get out. To the relief of everyone on the trip, I give up the keys.
We planned on going swimming on way to Vancouver, but it wasn’t until we were going swimming that i realized that we didn ‘t have any towels with us. Oops – drip dry everyone!
I thought it was the longest road trip since my surgery in 2012. My mom insisted that the dogs had been at the house before. I thought she was nuts. Apparently halfway into the three weeks of being in BC, and after being cued by my grandmother when in Campbell River that Yes I did visit last summer and this summer too!! Okay where did that experience go. Apparently into the void of jumbled thoughts until it was recalled with an event that i remembered. That is when the pieces started to fall into place.
I spent seven hours fighting with a hard drive that wasn’t being recognized by my mom’s computer. I cursed her old technology and tried downloading drivers etc…only to be outwitted by a cord change. I was using the power cord USB instead of the computer transfer USB. Computer technology 1 me 0.5 as i did get those 800 images transferred safely to my external drive and off my phone and camera!
We decided to do a family trip to Bellingham, Washington. Six in the minivan, idle conversation, radio on, road blurring by – big box stores, the mall & I am so proud of myself. I made it to lunchtime. I only had one little overhwelming incident – I couldn’t decide on anything for the boys so I just piled it into a cart and tried to find them.
We decide to get lunch and unintentionally left everyone hanging in the food court for an undetermined amount of time. I honestly only wanted to check out one store but got distracted and wandered aimlessly in and out of stores being slightly overwhelmed but proud of myself that I was actuallly shopping in a mall alone. However, I did not take into considereation the 5 other people waiting in the food court – oops!
After I was found intact, unharmed & with shopping bag in hand. I appologized to Chris. As we walked towards the food court Chris asks if I was wearing my dress inside out. Ummm…I look down and I am! Apparently all the visual and noise stimulation did affect my ability to dress myself in the change room correctly.
I am spending every night reading again, but I am still not remembering very much. I am frustrated with that. I am happy for finally clarifying a goal. I was all ready to dive right in, but Chris and his good reasoning stopped me from doing any school for now. My head pain level started to increase and become a steady daily reminder that the Botox effects were wearing off. I didn’t let that or my constant feeling sick stop me from trying to give the boys a great trip.
It irks me to no end when they call me lazy mommy for sleeping. It is hard to keep up to them all the time and be able to do stuff. They are too young to realize the implications of everything but I hope that when they are older they will understand. I hope to still get more and more energy as time progresses. First goal though is a better brain!
So after three weeks of laughter, glitches, laughter again. The only thing that can get you through a road trip and an adventure that the family is on is laughter and rolling with the punches or lack of towels, sleeping bags, coffee etc! Heres to a great second half of 2014 with more improvements with 40 more Botox shots & cognitive training!